I am often asked “What is the best Mala for me?” Well, that is a pretty tough question! A lot of it depends on what you plan on doing with the Mala. Are you repeating mantras while counting beads? Do you plan on wearing it on your wrist? Will you simply hold it in a practice of mindfulness? Do you plan on just wearing it around your neck? Is it a gift that will be held gently? What is your budget? The answers to these questions all influence the choices you should make in selecting the options for your new Mala.
These were written for the 108ct Mala but the basic concepts apply to any count/size. Here are a few guidelines you should certainly follow when choosing your Main Bead Type and the Stringing Method:
Do you plan on counting beads? If yes then you should opt for wood/seed/bone beads or, if you prefer gemstone beads, you should opt for hand-knotting or the re-drilling option. The reason for this is that wood/seed/bone beads have larger holes that will allow me to string on thicker/stronger 1.5mm cord, hand-knotting builds a buffer between gemstone beads, and if you choose to re-drill gemstone beads I can then use the thicker cord in them too. If you opt for gemstone beads WITHOUT re-drilling or hand-knotting then I will use the thinner .8mm cord and, if you count mantras the string will wear through quickly and your Mala will break.
Do you plan on wearing the Mala wrapped around your wrist? If so then you should opt for the Adjustable Flat Knot as this will allow you to open the circumference of the Mala, wrap an extra loop over your hand, and then cinch it back down again. If you choose wood/seed/bone beads as your main beads then I will use the thicker cord by default and if you choose gemstone beads as your main beads then I will use the thinner cord by default. If you must have all gemstone beads I recommend opting for re-drilling along with the adjustable knot. I absolutely do not recommend that you ever ever ever wrap a Mala around your wrist if it is strung on thin cord WITHOUT an adjustable knot. Another thing to consider if wrapping is opting for a wood Guru as the internal edges are softer than that in a stone Guru bead. The BEST option if you want to wrap on your wrist is for you to select wood/seed/bone beads and go with the adjustable knot.
Is this a Mala that you will simply wear on your neck and/or not count mantras on or wrap on your wrist? If this describes you then you can pretty much choose any options for the main beads and stringing method. Since there will be no or little stress placed on the beads and cord you can go with all gemstone beads. However, if you plan on up-sizing to 10mm gemstone beads I HIGHLY recommend that you opt for the re-drilling because the 10mm beads are heavy and will wear/stretch the default thinner cord and your Mala will break. Also, the 108ct Mala is the only one that will go over your head! If you want something that is exquisite and beautiful then I’d recommend you opt for the Snake Hand-Knotting option (read more about it here on my Custom Mala Shop Blog).
Here are the guidelines in a simple format:
You will be counting beads/saying mantras:
Select wood/seed/bone main beads so I can use thick and strong cord
If selecting gemstone beads opt for hand-knotting or re-drilling
You plan on wrapping my Mala on your wrist:
Opt for the adjustable knot
If selecting gemstone beads opt for re-drilling
You are concerned about strength and durability:
Select wood/seed/bone main beads
If selecting gemstone beads opt for hand-knotting or re-drilling
You want an expensive, elegant and beautiful gemstone Mala:
Select gemstone beads and opt for Snake Hand-Knotting
You want 10mm gemstone main beads:
Opt for re-drilling as the default thin cord will wear, stretch, and break under the weight.
You want a strong and inexpensive Mala that is warm, traditional, earthy and organic:
Select wood beads
Add gemstone Markers/Guru
The bottom line is that wood/seed/bone beads will always result in a warmer and more durable Mala- you can add gemstone markers/Guru to incorporate these components if you like. If you want to have an all gemstone then you really ought to consider re-drilling or hand-knotting.